Why do some people often argue against ity by using pedophilia?

Pedos usually same thats gay no matter what they claim. Plus groups like NAMBLA promote men having with young boys. "Once they turn 8 its too late". My friend works in a prison. He told me a popular prison joke a few weeks ago. Why is it cool to shower with a 12 year old? Because once their hair gets wet you can slick it back and make them look like their 8. Pedos usually kids the same . Now stat is usually concentual but considered because of persons age not because they forced or threatened the victum. Those people qualify as pedos but in my opinion their just sickos thats just me though.